Relationships can feel overwhelming when communication breaks down, trust is shaken, or emotional distance grows. Couples often delay seeking help because they are unsure what therapy involves or worry they may be judged. Professional couples therapy provides a structured, neutral, and supportive space where both partners are heard, understood, and guided toward healthier connection.
If you are looking for expert, private, and evidence-based relationship counselling, you are in experienced hands.
Meet Shivani Misri Sadhoo
"As a couples counsellor, I believe that every couple has the potential to heal if given the right tools and a safe space. My approach is rooted in years of clinical training and specialization in relationship counselling skills from premier medical institutions like AIIMS and VIMHANS (New Delhi). I don't believe in a 'one-size-fits-all' solution. Instead, I integrate internationally recognized, research-based methods—including the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)—to help you navigate your unique challenges. Having personally worked with over 19,000 couples and individuals, I have seen firsthand how structured, empathetic guidance can transform even the most strained relationships." ” - Shivani Misri Sadhoo, a Gottman Ceritified Couples Therapist and certified CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapist), Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapist (DBT), Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT)
My Commitment to Your Relationship
Shivani Misri Sadhoo says "In my practice, I adhere to the highest ethical standards of psychotherapy. My goal is never to tell you who is 'right' or 'wrong,' but to act as a bridge for communication. I provide a judgment-free zone where both voices carry equal weight."
International Credentials & Clinical Training
- ✔ Internationally recommended relationship counsellor by the world’s most trusted research-based foundation for couples therapy – The Gottman Institute
- ✔ Trained in specialised relationship counselling skills from premier institutions including AIIMS and VIMHANS
- ✔ Certified in evidence-based therapeutic approaches:
- ✔ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- ✔ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- ✔ Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- ✔ Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)
Areas of Expertise
She has extensive experience helping couples navigate:
- ✔ Affairs and infidelity recovery
- ✔ Betrayal and broken trust
- ✔ Communication breakdown
- ✔ Emotional distance and intimacy issues
- ✔ Frequent conflicts and unresolved arguments
- ✔ Conflicting values and compatibility concerns
- ✔ Separation and divorce decisions
- ✔ Grief and bereavement within relationships
- ✔ Anxiety, fear, depression, and low mood affecting partnerships
Common Challenges We Address
In my experience working with over 19,000 couples, I have found that most relationship distress falls into a few specific patterns. You might feel like your situation is unique, but these are common hurdles that we can navigate together:
- ✔ The "Roommate" Syndrome: You have lost emotional or physical intimacy and feel like you are just co-existing or co-parenting without a romantic spark.
- ✔ The Cycle of Constant Conflict: Every small disagreement spirals into a major argument. You feel like you are "walking on eggshells" to avoid a fight.
- ✔ Betrayal & Infidelity Recovery: You are struggling to breathe after a breach of trust. I provide a structured path to process the pain and determine if rebuilding is possible.
- ✔ Communication Deadlock: One partner "pursues" while the other "withdraws" or shuts down. I help break this cycle to ensure both voices are finally heard.
- ✔ Life Transition Strains: Navigating the pressures of new parenthood, career shifts, or interference from extended family/in-laws that is straining the marital bond.
- ✔ Premarital Clarity: You are deeply in love but want to address "uncomfortable topics" like finances, values, or conflict styles before saying "I do."
A Trusted Name in Relationship Healing
- ✔ Over 19,000 couples and individuals from India and abroad have benefitted from her counselling
- ✔ Widely regarded as one of the leading marriage counsellors in Delhi
- ✔ Recognized for high success outcomes and ethical, empathetic care
- ✔ Known for helping couples rebuild trust, restore emotional safety, and rejuvenate marriages
What Happens in Your First Session?
Starting therapy can feel intimidating. Knowing what to expect helps you feel prepared and comfortable.
- ✔ Step 1: Understanding Your Story A guided conversation to understand your relationship history, current challenges, and emotional concerns.
- ✔ Step 2: Safe & Neutral Space Clear boundaries are established. The counselling space remains neutral, respectful, and non-judgmental for both partners.
- ✔ Step 3: Defining Shared Goals You and your partner identify what needs to change and what a healthier relationship looks like for you.
- ✔ Step 4: Personalized Therapy Plan A structured plan is created using evidence-based approaches best suited to your concerns.
Evidence-Based Therapy Methods Used
Different relationship challenges require different therapeutic approaches. Your sessions may include:
- ✔ Gottman Method Research-driven approach that improves communication, conflict management, and emotional connection.
- ✔ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Helps partners understand emotional needs, attachment patterns, and rebuild secure bonds.
- ✔ Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Identifies negative thought patterns that influence relationship behaviors and replaces them with constructive responses.
- ✔ Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) Improves emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and mindful communication during conflict.
Practice & Hospital Associations
- ✔ Independent practice clinic in Greater Kailash, New Delhi
- ✔ Listed on the panel of leading hospitals.
- ✔ Associated with multi-specialty medical institutions
Appointment Information
All sessions are conducted personally by Shivani Misri Sadhoo.
- ✔ Direct one-on-one counselling (no delegation to junior therapists)
- ✔ Dedicated session duration: 60 minutes
- ✔ Each session is customized to your relationship needs
- ✔ Pre-booking required due to extended appointment queue (clients from India and abroad)
Appointment Advantages
- ✔ Personal care from an experienced senior counsellor
- ✔ Focused, private, and confidential sessions
- ✔ Tailored relationship recovery strategies
- ✔ Trusted professional support backed by extensive experience
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do we know if we really need couples therapy?
Shivani Misri Sadhoo explains that couples therapy becomes important when relationship stress starts affecting emotional connection and daily harmony.
- Communication repeatedly breaks down despite sincere efforts
- Emotional distance keeps increasing and partners feel unheard
- Recurring conflicts, resentment, or loss of trust remain unresolved
Can couples therapy actually save a relationship?
Shivani Misri Sadhoo says couples therapy helps partners gain clarity, rebuild emotional safety, and strengthen their bond through structured professional guidance.
- Therapy does not force a relationship to continue
- Focuses on rebuilding trust and improving communication
- Helps couples make healthy, informed decisions about their future
What happens if my partner refuses to attend therapy?
Shivani Misri Sadhoo advises that healing can begin even if one partner starts the process individually.
- One partner can begin individual counselling sessions
- Helps understand relationship patterns and emotional triggers
- Teaches constructive ways to encourage participation without pressure
How long does couples therapy usually take?
Shivani Misri Sadhoo says the duration of therapy varies based on the couple’s goals and the depth of concerns involved.
- Some couples benefit from short-term structured sessions
- Specific issues may be resolved in a focused timeframe
- Deeper emotional healing may require longer-term work
Is couples therapy confidential and private?
Shivani Misri Sadhoo emphasizes that privacy and confidentiality are essential foundations of professional counselling.
- Sessions are conducted in a secure and private setting
- A neutral, respectful, and judgment-free environment is maintained
- All discussions follow strict ethical confidentiality standards
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